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I have a five-month old son and, like most mothers, am concerned about autism. Currently my son tends to get very hyper at times to the point where he shakes with excitment. This could very well be normal baby behavior. He also seems to have a hard time settling down and getting comfortable for bed or naps, but eventually goes to sleep, though. I also need to mention that he is asthmatic and is on two types of pumps. This behavior could be an effect of the pumps, although I've heard conflicting feedback about the effects of albuterol (even from doctors). So my question is to the mothers of autistic children who have great insight, especially thinking in retrospect, of what the early signs were for thier children. Any information you could share would be greatly appreciated. I would much rather solicit this information from people who have experience, than to read and search through an enormous amount of internet information. I do understand also that I could just have a hyperactive kid

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8 Responses to “Attention: Mother’s Of Autistic Children – What Are The Early Signs?”

  • pinkpigl:

    There’s not much you will notice at 5 months of age. However, some babies with autism hate to be held at all. My son was like that.
    Please do not read Jenny McCarthy’s book. She is NOT an expert and I do not recommend that as a place to start.
    Here is a website put together by experts if you are truly concerned:http://www.autismspeaks.org/whatisit/lea…

  • Angie:

    I understand what you’re saying, you’re just being a good mom! Before I tell you what I saw with my autistic child, I have a non-autistic child who is 2 1/2 and has asthma. I was really concerned about giving him albuterol because I read the same things you did. But, I have to say, I have not seen hyperactivity in him when he has his breathing treatments. However, he doesn’t really need it very often, his asthma is not that bad. So, if you’re giving your baby treatments every day then you might see more of that, I don’t know. Now, for my son who is five and autistic. We knew from birth that something was wrong with him, and I’ll tell you what we saw. While I do believe these are red flags I’m not going to say for certain they were signs of autism, but these do seem to be common problems in other moms I’ve talked to. So, you can do with it what you want, read into it what you want. In the end, go with your gut instinct if you ever feel he needs an evaluation. Typically they won’t even bother to evaluate until the child is 13 months, so just record behaviors that have you a little concerned.
    From the first day he was brought home from the hospital, he had night terrors. That’s one I haven’t hear anyone else go through, but he did. It was awful. He had extreme colic and GERD. He HAD to be held all the time. The longest I could put him down was about 10 minutes. If I didn’t hold him and he cried, it was like he was in extreme pain or fear. He would tense up his body, all the time, like he was just in agony. He didn’t sleep for very long at a time. He had seizures if he saw flashing lights. He didn’t play with toys, didn’t put things in his mouth, didn’t explore and get into trouble like most crawlers and creepers do. I didn’t have to babyproof the house at all, which I was proud of, but now know it showed a lack of interest in things around him. He didn’t sleep through the night until he was over three years old and only then with supplements, until his sleep pattern was regulated and he was able to go off of them. He did start talking on time, but around the age of two he started losing words that he knew, and he was still only using two word phrases by the age of three with a vocabulary of only 30 words. He would repeat phrases over and over again, same time every day. Then the tantruming started, severe, not normal tantrums that would last about 45 min. each and he would have about 15 a day, and would self-mutilate during the tantrums. He wouldn’t respond to anything that I tried to get him to stop. I could have offered him a cake and he wouldn’t have heard me. He was VERY social, his social problems didn’t show up until this year, now that he’s old enough to see that he doesn’t read social cues very well and can’t self-regulate his emotions well enough to play with someone for very long, besides his brother. I could keep going, but that takes you from birth to three, which is where autism will present itself the most. I’ll tell you to, you’re doing the right thing by going to moms, because most of what you read online is stereotypical, in-a-box thinking, and autism is much more complicated than that. No two kids will present autism exactly the same way, and it can be missed because people are only looking for the major signs, not knowing that it can be varying degrees of severity. In the end my advice is don’t be overly concerned, but just watch. This can happen to anyone, and it’s better to know that and watch for signs than to think it won’t happen to you and miss those early signs. Good for you for being a concerned mom! In the end, you will love your child no matter what.
    Oh, I fogot to say, too, that he could not handle eating meat until he was three yrs. old, he would gag on it. He still has oral sensitivity problems but they’re not as severe.

  • i didn’t start noticing a change until age 1 1/2…
    but the first sign was “uncontrollable meltdowns”

  • Does he have strange obsessions with certain things, like banging pots and pans or playing with socks? Can he do these things for hours at a time without getting bored? Does he flap his arms or do other strange things with his arms or legs? Does he not like being touched and does he avoid eye contact? If so, he ,may be autistic, and if not, it’s improbable. Those are the main signs.

  • Lisa T:

    We have a 13 year old son with high functioning autism
    As an infant you would look for signs such as:
    Lack of eye contact
    Speech development. This includes early speech development such as cooing and babbling. Our son started to coo at 6 weeks – then at about 8 weeks he was silent. There was no babbling, bub bub, dad dad or mum mum type development. He failed his hearing test. But as he had numerous ear infections this was the reason given. He had surgery. But then he went from no speech what so ever to talking like a little professor – all kids should go through the standard speech development. Our son didnt.
    He was very routine. Was difficult to settle and would scream for hours once he awoke from naps. He was not interested in play – particularly imaginative play. Would stack things over and over – was mesmerised by the television for hours and hours. Would play opening and closing doors over and over, but watched the mechanism of the door hinges. In other words he would have obsessive type interests – but love or money or would not get his attention to other things if he was not interested.
    Difficulty with weaning and taking to solid foods.
    He will only eat certain foods of a particular texture and color.
    He often gagged an vomited when learning to eat solids.
    He can be clumsly – has an unusual gait. When excited he would flap his arms and hands. Sensitive to light touch and people touching his head. Unusual and intense fears.
    Loud sudden noises and new places would frighten him.
    When he was able to walk – he would wander away – so we would have to watch him closely.
    There are many other signs.
    I would not actually say he was ever hyperactive. He may have signs of attention deficit – this is more to do with getting him to move from one activity to another – as opposed to being hyperactive. When he is excited he will flap – and may run around – but he would not be hyperactive at all times of the day.
    You cant just self diagnose something like autism. There ar many types of autism on the spectrum. Individuals present with autism in different ways. So my sons fear of something may not be the fear of another person with austism. Enjoy your baby – if you are really worried – get an assessment completed by a suitably qualified practitioner. Though this may be difficult to do at 5 months – as many of the signs may not be there.

  • wildauth:

    Usually signs start at age two. Loss of eye contact, flapping of arms, squinting of the eyes or messing with them (stimming), not looking at you when you call their name (due to hyper sensitive hearing more than likely).
    From what you’re saying, I would think you have a hyper kid. All kids are hyper in one way or another, it’s completely normal. Now, if you have you or the Father has a history with Autism or has relatives who are “weird” (like the symptoms of autism), than just watch for it. Also they’re kids with autism, not autistic kids.

  • kelly j:

    Social interactions and relationships. Symptoms may include:
    Significant problems developing nonverbal communication skills, such as eye-to-eye gazing, facial expressions, and body posture.
    Failure to establish friendships with children the same age.
    Lack of interest in sharing enjoyment, interests, or achievements with other people.
    Lack of empathy. People with autism may have difficulty understanding another person’s feelings, such as pain or sorrow.
    Verbal and nonverbal communication. Symptoms may include:
    Delay in, or lack of, learning to talk. As many as 50% of people with autism never speak. 2
    Problems taking steps to start a conversation. Also, people with autism have difficulties continuing a conversation once it has begun.
    Stereotyped and repetitive use of language. People with autism often repeat over and over a phrase they have heard previously (echolalia).
    Difficulty understanding their listener’s perspective. For example, a person with autism may not understand that someone is using humor. They may interpret the communication word for word and fail to catch the implied meaning.
    Limited interests in activities or play. Symptoms may include:
    An unusual focus on pieces. Younger children with autism often focus on parts of toys, such as the wheels on a car, rather than playing with the entire toy.
    Preoccupation with certain topics. Older children and adults are often fascinated by train schedules, weather patterns, or license plates.
    A need for sameness and routines. For example, a child with autism may always need to eat bread before salad and insist on driving the same route every day to school.
    Stereotyped behaviors. These include body rocking and hand flapping.
    Symptoms during childhood
    Symptoms of autism are usually first noticed by parents and other caregivers sometime during the child’s first 3 years. Although autism is present at birth (congenital), signs of the disorder can be difficult to identify or diagnose during infancy. Parents often become concerned when their toddler does not like to be held; does not seem interested in playing certain games, such as peekaboo; and does not begin to talk. They also may be confused about their child’s hearing abilities. It often seems that a child with autism does not hear, yet at other times, he or she may appear to hear a distant background noise, such as the whistle of a train.
    With early and intensive treatment, most children improve their ability to relate to others, communicate, and help themselves as they grow older. Contrary to popular myths about children with autism, very few are completely socially isolated or “live in a world of their

  • Miss Charla:

    Jenny McCarthy says there is a loss of eye contact….flapping of the hands and also loss of devlopement…mostly mental like speech…it seems like the child almost reverts…you may want to read her book

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